Date a girl who writes.
Date a girl who may never wear completely clean clothes, because of coffee stains and ink spills. She’ll have many problems with her closet space, and her laptop is never boring because there are so many words, so many worlds that she’s cluttered amidst the space. Tabs open filled with obscure and popular music. Interesting factoids about Catherine the Great, and the immortality of jellyfish. Laugh it off when she tells you that she forgot to clean her room, that her clothes are lost among the binders so it’ll take her longer to get ready, that her shoes hidden under the mountain of broken Bic pens and the refurbished laptop that she’s saved for ever since she was twelve.
Kiss her under the lamppost, when it’s raining. Tell her your definition of love.
Find a girl who writes. You’ll know that she has a sense of humor, a sense of empathy and kindness, and that she will dream up worlds, universes for you. She’s the one with the faintest of shadows underneath her eyelids, the one who smells of coffee and Coca-cola and jasmine green tea. You see that girl hunched over a notebook. That’s the writer. With her fingers occasionally smudged with charcoal, with ink that will travel onto your hands when you interlock your fingers with her’s. She will never stop, churning out adventures, of traitors and heroes. Darkness and light. Fear and love. That’s the writer. She can never resist filling a blank page with words, whatever the color of the page is.
She’s the girl reading while waiting for her coffee and tea. She’s the quiet girl with her music turned up loud (or impossibly quiet), separating the two of you by an ocean of crescendos and decrescendos as she’s thinking of the perfect words. If you take a peek at her cup, the tea or coffee’s already cold. She’s already forgotten it.
Use a pick-up line with her if she doesn’t look to busy.
If she raises her head, offer to buy her another cup of coffee. Or of tea. She’ll repay you with stories. If she closes her laptop, give her your critique of Tolstoy, and your best theories of Hannibal and the Crossing. Tell her your characters, your dreams, and ask if she gotten through her first novel.
It is hard to date a girl who writes. But be patient with her. Give her books for her birthday, pretty notebooks for Christmas and for anniversaries, moleskins and bookmarks and many, many books. Give her the gift of words, for writers are talkative people, and they are verbose in their thanks. Let her know that you’re behind her every step of the way, for the lines between fiction and reality are fluid.
She’ll give you a chance.
Don’t lie to her. She’ll understand the syntax behind your words. She’ll be disappointed by your lies, but a girl who writes will understand. She’ll understand that sometimes even the greatest heroes fail, and that happy endings take time, both in fiction and reality. She’s realistic. A girl who writes isn’t impatient; she will understand your flaws. She will cherish them, because a girl who writes will understand plot. She’ll understand that endings happen for better or for worst.
A girl who writes will not expect perfection from you. Her narratives are rich, her characters are multifaceted because of interesting flaws. She’ll understand that a good book does not have perfect characters; villains and tragic flaws are the salt of books. She’ll understand trouble, because it spices up her story. No author wants an invincible hero; the girl who writes will understand that you are only human.
Be her compatriot, be her darling, her love, her dream, her world.
If you find a girl who writes, keep her close. If you find her at two AM, typing furiously, the neon gaze of the light illuminating her furrowed forehead, place a blanket gently on her so that she does not catch a chill. Make her a pot of tea, and sit with her. You may lose her to her world for a few moments, but she will come back to you, brimming with treasure. You will believe in her every single time, the two of you illuminated only by the computer screen, but invincible in the darkness.
She is your Shahrazad. When you are afraid of the dark, she will guide you, her words turning into lanterns, turning into lights and stars and candles that will guide you through your darkest times. She’ll be the one to save you.
She’ll whisk you away on a hot air balloon, and you will be smitten with her. She’s mischievous, frisky, yet she’s quiet and when she has to kill off a lovely character, when she cries, hold her and tell her that it will be alright.
You will propose to her. Maybe on a boat in the ocean, maybe in a little cottage in the Appalachian Mountains. Maybe in New York City. Maybe Chicago. Baltimore. Maybe outside her publisher’s office. Because she’s radiant, wherever she goes. Maybe even outside of a cinema where the two of you kiss in the rain. She’ll say that it is overused and clichéd, but the glint in her eyes will tell you that she appreciates it all the same.
You will smile hard as she talks a mile a second, and your heart will skip a beat when she holds your hand and she will write stories of your lives together. She’ll hold you close and whisper secrets into your ears. She’s lovely, remember that. She’s self made and she’s brilliant. Her names for the children might be terrible, but you’ll be okay with that. A girl who writes will tell your children fantastical stories.
Because that is the best part about a girl who writes. She has imagination and she has courage, and it will be enough. She’ll save you in the oceans of her dreams, and she’ll be your catharsis and your 11:11. She’ll be your firebird and she’ll be your knight, and she’ll become your world, in the curve of her smile, in the hazel of her eye the half-dimple on her face, the words that are pouring out of her, a torrent, a wave, a crescendo - so many sensations that you will be left breathless by a girl who writes.
Maybe she’s not the best at grammar, but that is okay.
Date a girl who writes because you deserve it. She’s witty, she’s empathetic, enigmatic at times and she’s lovely. She’s got the most colorful life. She may be living in NYC or she may be living in a small cottage. Date a girl who writes because a girl who writes reads.
A girl who writes will understand reality. She’ll be infuriating at times, and maybe sometimes you will hate her. Sometimes she will hate you too. But a girl who writes understands human nature, and she will understand that you are weak. She will not leave on the Midnight Train the first moment that things go sour. She will understand that real life isn’t like a story, because while she works in stories, she lives in reality.
Date a girl who writes.
Because there is nothing better then a girl who writes.
I… kind of really like this-
But also! Date a girl who writes, because at four in the morning, when she’s done refreshing tumblr and writing porn about superheros (and villains!) and detectives and hunters with Impalas…. a girl who writes will crawl into bed and wake you up because you’re much more real than those she writes about and she’s got a thousand ideas about how to make you come.
- raggalera reblogged this from voguenes
- beccadressedinblood reblogged this from ayyske
- youaredustedwithgrey likes this
- fvdinq reblogged this from louvelyhaze
- surfthe-coast likes this
- lustiia reblogged this from ohneve
- aymanthewillis likes this
- afflictedfvck likes this
- she---dreamed--of--paradise likes this
- michaels-whores reblogged this from daisy-lemonade
- voguenes reblogged this from parisproposal
- rizzathepizza reblogged this from ivour
- vividlilacs reblogged this from totheriverlands
- diamudis likes this
- mev638516 reblogged this from thepsychoticfangirl
- mev638516 likes this
- myjoshua-tree reblogged this from ohddaughter
- triggerxo likes this
- lucilleherondale reblogged this from missingstilinski
- missingstilinski reblogged this from rightonthelimitt
- itzbruna reblogged this from epitomizinq
- letmehaveafearlesslife likes this
- lovely-little-days reblogged this from davegroh-l
- takeoff-yourmaskk reblogged this from imissthatpinkhair
- morevnaas reblogged this from starlightrps
- missayeshaa likes this
- afjusto reblogged this from tal-etc
- tal-etc reblogged this from enrxoxo
- sunofn likes this
- lonelieave likes this
- ainatt reblogged this from c-linic and added:
- bronymuse reblogged this from mage-with-a-burning-spirit and added:
- loiseau-ou-lacage reblogged this from mage-with-a-burning-spirit
- baustille likes this
- saltyradness likes this
- babydaisyhernandez likes this
- babydaisyhernandez reblogged this from glitteryhotpocket
- mage-with-a-burning-spirit reblogged this from indigohailstorm
- mage-with-a-burning-spirit likes this
- outof-spaceoutof-time reblogged this from imissthatpinkhair
- outof-spaceoutof-time likes this
- tumblingalma likes this
- kindakawaiistormer likes this
- give-a-littletime reblogged this from sheerio-stormer777
- celestialcontrail likes this
- sheerio-stormer777 reblogged this from indigohailstorm
- sheerio-stormer777 likes this
- indigohailstorm reblogged this from poseuses
- indigohailstorm likes this